Small guest lists and big feelings are colliding at the altar.

Millennials are scaling back their weddings—and their parents aren’t exactly thrilled. What used to be a 200-person affair with an open bar and a band is now an intimate backyard ceremony or a weekend elopement with 20 close friends. It’s not about cutting corners—it’s about aligning with values. But to many boomer parents, it looks like a rejection of tradition, family, and everything they imagined their child’s big day would be.
Here’s why those downsized vows are stirring up some very loud generational drama.






