Your profile might be the reason no one’s swiping right—or sticking around.

Creating an online dating profile is trickier than people admit. You’re trying to strike a balance between confidence and approachability, honesty and intrigue. But even the smartest, funniest, most dateable women end up making subtle mistakes that turn guys off before the conversation even starts. It’s not about changing who you are—it’s about knowing how certain words, photos, or vibes are being received on the other side of the screen.
Some of these missteps are so common, they’ve become clichés. Others are newer traps, fed by trends or bad advice. Either way, they’re probably not helping you attract the kind of attention you actually want. If your inbox is quiet or filled with the wrong types of guys, your profile might be the culprit. These 13 mistakes could be costing you great conversations—and even better connections.