Some people attract users like flies to honey—and there’s usually a money trail behind it.

If you constantly find yourself footing the bill, loaning out cash you’ll never see again, or carrying the financial weight in your relationships, you might be walking around with an invisible “easy target” sign. It’s not always about being rich—people with average incomes get used and drained, too. It usually boils down to boundaries, guilt, or the fear of looking selfish when you say no. That’s exactly how manipulators and opportunists keep winning.
The truth is, people who are generous, helpful, or even just conflict-averse often end up being financially exploited without realizing it. It’s not about blaming yourself—it’s about noticing the patterns and making it harder for others to take advantage of you. Once you start spotting the red flags, you can build a spine around your wallet. If you’re tired of being drained and resentful, it’s time to get honest about the behaviors and beliefs that make you an easy mark. These ten truths might sting a little, but they’ll help you stop the cycle—and finally keep more of what you work so hard for.






