Getting them to say yes starts with showing it’s not just babysitting—it’s connection.

Retired parents are supposed to be the built-in babysitters, right? That’s the fantasy. But in reality, they’re often living their best lives—traveling, brunching, sleeping in—and you’re stuck awkwardly asking for help while praying they don’t hit you with another “no.” It’s frustrating, especially when you’re juggling work, school runs, and the occasional hope for an adult night out.
The trick isn’t begging or guilt-tripping. It’s making them want to say yes. You’ve got to appeal to their emotions, their schedule, and maybe even their wallet. Babysitting doesn’t have to feel like a chore—they just need to be reminded of all the perks. These 12 strategies can flip the script and turn your reluctant parents into enthusiastic grandparents again. It’s not about manipulating them—it’s about helping them see the value in saying yes, not just for you, but for themselves and their grandkids too.






